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Inspiring Videos About Beauty and Perseverance

July 25th, 2008

Real beauty is from the inside! No wonder our perception of beauty is distorted! Mayby we should look to each other like God does… look to the heart instead to the outside appearence… more

Incredible video about the relationship between a father and son…. and God’s relationship with us. more

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Red Pepper Hummus

July 19th, 2008

I’ve never been a big fan of humus because the ones I tried were so plain and boring. Recently a friend gave me a bite of her hummus and pita snack and it was so good I was inspired to make my own. Looking on the internet I found that humus is really HEALTHY and special note for us bandsters: it’s high in PROTEIN!
8g protein per 1/2 c. Hummus
3g protein per 1/2 wholewheat pita

I watched videos, read hummus blogs and scoured the internet for the perfect red pepper hummus recipe. I didn’t find it. I ended up using this recipe from You Tube and just added a jar of roasted red pepper and used a little less Tahini (sesame seed paste, I found in the Oriental foods section at our local store). It turned out pretty good, especially for a first try. What I like best about Hummus is that I can experiment with all kinds of variations. Next I’m going to try roasted tomato and feta. YUM!

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First year struggles with the band

July 19th, 2008

I have had so much going on in this first year with my band, mostly regular life. We moved to the coast, have a new puppy, got a new job, starting a new business on the side and with four kids in the house (9-18) even daily life has it’s challenges.

In the past my health and diet were always on the back burner to everything else going on in life. Plus, I used food as a reward (ice cream at the end of a hard day), an escape (dinner out at a nice restaurant with hubby– pasta, steak, yum!) and to just cope with feelings (busy my fingers and mouth eating chips while watching a good show). All very bad habits and coping mechanisms. With my band, even on busy and stressful days I HAD to stop and think what I was eating, how I was eating it and was limited in how much I could eat.

I had a couple of set backs. In my eagerness to lose weight fast, like many of my fellow August 07 bandsters, I rushed my fills and had to get unfills twice. The problem is that it can be hard to tell when I’m in the office if the fill is too much, especially with being so new to the band. The first one wasn’t too big of a deal. The tightness feeling that I sometimes have after a fill didn’t go away and I was only able to eat liquid and mush. The band was too tight and I just needed a small unfill.

The second one was much more serious. I thought the fill went well and was on liquids for two days, mush for a few after that and went to chewing chicken a veg really well. About a week or so after the fill I ate chicken, maybe didn’t chew well enough, and had a major PB. After the PB the symptoms didn’t go away and I wasn’t able to swallow my own saliva! So, the next morning we rushed to my Dr (2.5 hours away) for an unfill. In a case like that they would normally completely unfill but I begged that they only take half and they did, thank God!

After the swelling went down I started to FEEL my stomach again. I was H-U-N-G-R-Y! I hadn’t felt that feeling in a while. How annoying. Needless to say I gained a bit of my weight back before getting in for the refill.

I went in for another refill yesterday and finally have my restriction back. I actually relish the soft foods, tiny amounts and tight feeling. It was so hard after surgery but now I feel comfortable with it.

I was feeling disappointed that I gained some of my weight back after the unfill and haven’t lost nearly as much as many of my fellow bandsters. Then I realized having my band is for life. This is only my first year and I’m still learning. I didn’t gain all this weight in one year and it’s not good for it to all come off in one year. So, this is me: Bandster for life and learning!

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Lap Band Weight Loss Video

April 20th, 2008

This personal video testimonial of TwistedBarbie’s Lap Band Weight Loss brought tears to my eyes. Watch and enjoy!

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Explaining Lap Band to Kids

February 25th, 2008

This post was written by Jessica, our 18 year old daughter. It tells how she explained my lap band to her 8 year old sister.

The Lap Band is changing lives and families all around the world. The Bandsters that have the Lap Band realize the big step they are taking but their kids might have a harder time understanding what exactly a Lap Band does. This is how I helped to explain the Lap Band to my little sister and how our family coined the phrase “Mommy’s Zip Tie”.

The best way to explain to your kids is by comparing your Lap band to a Zip tie. Most kids know what a zip tie is, but if not then I would suggest getting a zip tie so you can explain– kids learn wonderfully through visuals they can relate to. Tell your child that you needed help getting healthy so you went to the Doctor and got this zip tie on your tummy. What the zip tie does is goes around your stomach and squeezes it to make it smaller.

If you have a zip tie you can give a little demonstration. You need a zip tie and a loosely inflated plastic bag. You want it to have enough air in it that it has some shape but not enough that it will pop when you put on the zip tie. (If that were to happen your child is likely to end up more afraid and confused than before. Oops!) Tell them that a smaller tummy helps you to eat less and get into better shape. Explain that when you are in a better shape you will be able to do more things with them and you will be happier.

Kids understand more than you think and will be happy for you. My kids have been so supportive and happy for me. They make me very proud.

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Brandy’s Lap Band Success Story

February 20th, 2008

Brandy’s starting weight was 320 lbs. Current weight is 165 lbs.

That’s a total weight loss of 155 lbs! Congratulations, Brandy!

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How did you come to the conclusion that the lap band was right for you?
Brandy: I decided that I had to do something and researched the R En Y. I decided it was not right for me, well because I just don’t like commitments. I was concerned what if the Dr. made the pouch too big or too small? I choose the band because I felt I had the most control.


What kind of insurance did you have or were you a self-pay patient?
Brandy: I am the wife of a Disabled Veteran and have ChampVA insurance.

What kind of band do you have? How many cc did it take to hit your “sweet spot”?
Brandy: I have the 4cc Inamed band. I hit my sweet spot at 3.00 cc’s, which took about 9 fills to get. I could only tolerate very small adjustments.

When and where did you have your surgery? Would you recommend that Dr or hospital to others?
Brandy: I had my surgery at Hurley Bariatric in Flint, Mi. I would highly recommend them.

Are you happy with your results from the lap band?
Brandy: Beyond happy, happiness has hit a whole new level!

Do you tell people that you have the band?

Brandy: Yes!

What kinds of foods do you eat?

Brandy: I eat pretty much whatever I want, with the understanding to myself that every calorie is counted. I use www.myparamidtracker.com to track all of my calorie intake. The key for me is never cutting out foods. If I really want something I have it, in small portions with the understanding that I will work it off later!

What kind of exercise do you do? How did you start?
Brandy: I exercise about 1.5 hours a day. I do 1 hour of cardio on a bike or treadmill for the most part. I then do .5 hour of weights alternating legs and arms each day. I do this at 4 am, 5 days a week. I started very slowly and only did about 15 minutes my first time. I have to still push myself to go sometimes, but I am always happy once I get there.

Any advice for people looking into getting the lap band?
Brandy: Make sure you a ready for the commitment. This isn’t a quick fix and it doesn’t do the work for you! You have to work it!

Any advice for people starting out with the band?

Brandy: Follow the bandster rules, workout and make good food choices. The band will not work unless you do! Picture your new life once you hit goal and think about it EVERYDAY. Motivate yourself by new clothes, shoes and purses not food! Remember food is now to be able to live life, not to live to eat!

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My February Band Fill

February 19th, 2008

I went in for my February lap band fill. Erin (left) and Heather (right) were nice enough to pose for a picture. Erin is an RN and fellow bandster. Heather is an x-ray tech. All of the staff in Dr. Neal’s office are really nice people!

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The machine in the picture is were I sit for my fill. It’s a Fluoroscope x-ray machine. It reclines back and the arm (shown at the top in this image) comes down over my tummy and takes a live x-ray of my band, port and stomach. The image appears on the screen (shown in the left side of this image) and the Erin can see where to stick the needle in the port. No guessing. I’m so thankful Dr. Neal uses fluoroscope for fills!

The needle stings just a quick bit and doesn’t hurt at all once it’s in. The nurse then extracts a little bit of the saline to make sure she’s in my port and then slowly injects more saline. (Next time I will get a picture of the special needle, tubing and clamp she uses. It’s the very best, top of the line for band fills– unlike some of those weird fills I’ve seen done on Youtube.) Then I have to sit up and drink barium as Erin watches it go down through my pouch, band and into my stomach. It’s kinda neat to watch.

That’s it. It takes me a lot longer to type all this than it does to get the fill. LOL! So, I now have 8.4 cc in my 14 cc lap band.

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I’m a Slow Loser

February 18th, 2008

I’m a slow loser and proud of it!

I’m down another 8 lbs for a total of 32 lbs lost. Bye! Bye! Never to be seen again! It has been about 24 weeks since my surgery. So that’s a 1.3 lb loss per week. That is a very healthy average. My Dr and the band manufacturers recommend losing 1-2 lbs a week.

Seeing many of my fellow August 07 bandsters lose 50-80 lbs sometimes makes me feel discouraged and it’s harder to post to my Aug. group. It seems silly even writing it now, but on those days that it gets me down it feels very real. So, I found a new area on my favorite message boards to post, because getting regular support is very important for this process. It’s called Slow Losers Unite It’s good to find others like me or that have been where I am. There is one member that has lost 150 lbs that had her surgery 1 year before mine. I am going to ask her for an interview and will post it here.

There are many good things about losing this weight slow, steady and healthy. It will be much less strain on my body and organs. I’m less likely to have hair loss or need plastic surgery. Best of all I’m more likely to keep the weight off long term. I’m happy to be a slow loser!

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Healthy Fish Recipe

February 2nd, 2008

Healthy Fish Recipe

This is a delicious fish recipe that even gets our non-fish eater’s mouths-watering.

What you need:

2 Whitefish Fillets

2 Tablespoons Lemon Juice

1 Tablespoon Olive Oil

1 Tablespoon Fat Free Parmesan (The Fat Free contains flour, so if you can’t find low fat use regular and add a teaspoon flour.)

Preheat Broiler and spray broiler pan with non- stick cooking spray.

Combine Lemon Juice and Olive Oil. Place fish into broiler pan, pour olive oil lemon juice over top. Sprinkle with Parmesan and stick in oven. Broil till brown and bubbly. It will form a fantastic crispy crust. Delicious!!

About 265 calories and 37 grams protein per 7oz fillet.

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Ravenna Black Has The BAND!

January 31st, 2008

Ravenna BlackI saw Ravenna on Wife Swap last night. Did you? She was great! I just had to look her up online and ask her what kind of weight loss surgery she had. Sure enough, she has the band! Here’s an excerpt of the email she wrote back

“Yes Kathy, I have a band! I went to France before it was FDA approved and got a MID band - but they’re all basically the same.”

Ravenna, I want to be like you when I grow up. You look fabulous!

WifeSwap cracks me up! These poor women; the show producers always put them the worst situation they can. Ravenna swapped with a lumberjill/lumberjack family! Both of the moms were way out of their element, which makes for lots of laughs and a few tears.

My favorite part was when the lumberjack dad was drawing with his son– thanks to Sarina aka Ravenna. I was also glad Sarina’s hubby broke the rule and refused to sell all of her burlesque stuff. Way to go Dan!!! This was one of the better episodes because both families seemed to learn something that made their lives better and the moms didn’t claw each other’s eyes out at the end (some of those meetings get pretty heated).

When I went looking for Ravenna online, I came across a series of articles about her at 360 Digest. I was very surprised to find out she had been fired from her Real Estate firm. Are you kidding me? In this day and age?!?! Well, long story short, a better firm hired her and it turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I’m glad things worked out in the end.

Be sure to stop by RavennaBlack.com and vote for her! She’s competing for Miss Viva Las Vegas.(keep in mind this is her burlesque site and may not be suitable for children)

What was your favorite part of the show?

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